Author: Breezy_Ann
Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2011 2:01 pm
I see what your saying and maybe I wasn’t clear, it’s so damn hard to put the right words together as your typing and the ideas are swirling around your head. I do not want it to be ok for someone to spout off nonsense about sub or just bashing it, I am talking about people that are having or have had legitamite issues. I am not saying that people should be able to tell someone else that they are wrong or staying on sub for life is bad for you. Not that kind of stuff. For example when someone is posting that they are having an issue on sub and want to get off or they just feel it is their time or for them personally or they don’t see the benefit of remaining on sub or whatever their case maybe they should be able to post about it honestly without fear of being labeled a sub hater.
There is a bit of a double standard here, people who post about how great they are doing on sub, and there are repeated posts that say they can’t understand why people would ever want off, or if you stop you will probably relapse and this is never challenged as pushing their views on others or saying there way is better, but if your experience has left you with the opposite belief and you posted that then you would definately be told not to impose your view on others or would be told that you are not respecting others method of recovery. I just think if you allow one then you should allow the other. I am not saying that any of these are my beliefs but I think consistency would make this a more reputable site.
I don’t even know if I am saying exactly what I mean, I find it difficult to put into words what I am talking about sometimes, I guess I could say that for another example even posting this I am worried that I am going to offend someone or be thought of as anti sub. I just wish people could look at someone’s individual experience and the view that it left them with without getting offended so easily.
