Author: Lillyval
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2011 1:20 pm
Just a thought, maybe you can ask your husband how he feels and try to figure out what issues he is dealing with right now. When a person gets into recovery like you did (congratulations BTW) he or she gets treatment, counseling, meds and often a lot of support from friends or family. But the spouse has been through a lot, too, and they most often don’t get any treatment or counseling or support. At one point in my treatment I was having issues with my husband and my doc offered to have him come in. Maybe you could arrange something, and maybe your husband would be willing to go if he knew it was to talk about HIS concerns.
And I agree about the possible depression. Please talk to your doc about it. And post here as much as you want. Sometimes just typing out what is on your mind really helps.
Hang in there,
Lilly
